How many of us don't often smile just because they think that there smile is not pretty? If you are not one 'em well I will raise my hand because I used to think that. But I know its not just me, there many people who don't smile and reason could be anything like depression, anxiety, inferiority complex and other including ego. Why? Is your poker face gonna change stuff that you are going through? And the face which is always so serious come on, why you are scaring others?
When I was 13 or 14 years old I hated my smile (I know I was an idiot). I never used to smile or if I do, I would smile alone or I used to put my hand on my mouth so nobody could see it. I have this huge gap between my teeth which I hated. I used to feel inferior. Watching another smile so beautifully made me sad all the time. Then I started copying others smile hiding the gap between my teeth thinking that I can look beautiful like them but it was not my real smile. It was not something which made me forget everything. I was tensed and sometimes I wanted to remove that gap, then somebody told me that you know this gap is a sign of luck and you are the luckiest girl that you have it. It made me smile but a bit. Still, I was not satisfied but one day I was on the elevator and I saw this really beautiful girl and in my heart, I really wanted to tell her that she is beautiful and then for a minute I forgot everything, went to her and said YOU ARE REALLY BEAUTIFUL. (I was so nervous that I could almost hear my heartbeat). She smiled and then said wow you have a beautiful smile.,and that moment I didn't know what to do and came back I looked myself in the mirror over and over again and I could see it.'my beautiful smile'.You know what made it beautiful? It was real. It was not a fake smile. This smile made my heart smile.
And then it started smiling often in front of everyone and get this compliment that my smile is really beautiful. I was in this huge bubble of darkness which was full of so many stuff, overall my life was a mess but my smile took me out of it. Things didn't change but it made me happier, it made me a happier person on Earth. My smile made me more social and confident than ever. Now I am that person who finds it difficult to stop smiling. Whenever I go out I find somebody looking at me I pass a smile to them and then they smile back and you know it is the best feeling ever,but one day I did the same thing and a women got so confused and she looked away then she again looked at me and when I smiled again she smiled back. (see your smile can be a smile of so many people).You can make somebody smile just by passing them a smile and do you know that when somebody looks at you the first thing they notice is your smile then eyes and then smell.so smile more often.
Why should I smile? Well, I will say that its a disease good to have which releases endorphins, reduces your blood pressure, widen your brain, increases your lifespan, it makes you social. It is a special and amazing thing is that it is contagious. And How can you smile? watch funny video's, do what you love(it will give you satisfaction and healthy brain), do crazy stuff as I do ( I like to dance like zebra haha ).Dance.Sing, listen to the music and If you wanna see your real smile just compliment anyone that they have a beautiful smile and when they smile back, the smile on your face will be the real smile. Smile more often. Honestly, Nobody is judging you. Nobody has an ugly smile. To me, every smile is a precious smile. Your smile is precious to me so please smile because I love you when you smile :) (eeeeeeeee) :) a big smile :D
Use your smile to change the world,
But don't let the world change your smile.
love you guys.be safe.
***bubye***
thanks u let me smile again .........
ReplyDeleteagain u won my heart my heart u r amazing ............. keep it up
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