_____ Life And Its Limits _____

There are many pieces that make up our lives: Moments that break us. Moments that raise and shape us. Decisions we make to hold on, or let go. People who enter our lives and leave us changed forever. The ones we love, the ones that hurt us, or heal us, or leave us. Sometimes we don't understand these pieces, or even despair over them. It's only when time goes by and we look back, that we suddenly can see our

whole life like a perfectly designed puzzle. Don't be afraid of the puzzle piece you're in now. It will fit perfectly…just like the rest. How could it not? Well…

The Designer is perfect.

No matter what, once in your life, someone will hurt you. That someone will take all that you are, and rip it into pieces and they won't even watch where those pieces land. But through the breakdown, you'll learn something about yourself. You'll learn that you're strong. And no matter how hard they destroy you, that you can conquer anyone and anything. The thought of being strong will surely make you happy and being happy when you're in pain is just an example of how strong you're as a person...

In life there is no such thing about fate that you cannot control, but other things do fall under the jurisdiction. You can decide how you can spend your time, whom you interact with, whom you should share your life, money, and energy with. You can select what you can read, eat, and study. You can choose how you're going to regard unfortunate circumstances in your life whether you'll see them as curses or opportunities. You can choose your words and the tone of your voice in which you speak to others. And most of all you can choose your thoughts. Rather thoughts and feelings and our reaction to them, are not a solid or fixed part of who we are. Positive thoughts generate positive feelings and 

attract positive life experiences. 

You're in charge of how you react to the people and events in your life. You can either give negativity

power over your life or you can choose happiness instead.

The pain you endure in your life is not permanent. You came to this world to grow and to explore and to touch the miracles and marvels of life. Your suffering needs to be respected. Don't try to ignore the hurt, because the hurt is real. Instead, let the hurt prove there is hope through your healing. Let the hurt soften you instead of hardening you. Let the hurt open you instead of closing you. Let the hurt deliver you to Love, and not to hate as you can't do anything about the Length of your life, but you can do something about its width and depth. The psychic depths are nature, and nature is creative life. The length of your life is less important than its depth. As Leni Riefenstahl said: "I feel as though I've lived many lives, experienced the heights and depths of each and like the waves of the ocean, never known rest. Throughout the years I've always looked for the unusual, for the wonderful, for the mysteries at the heart of Life."

So, basically, "Only he understands Life who enters into its depths."

First we may try to know ourselves, and then we'll begin to understand why things are as they are, and why life is as it is…

I truly feel that if we understand our self and set goals without the regulations and limitations others put on us, then nothing is impossible. The only limits we have are the limits we believe in..!! Don't let the society tell you what your limits are. "if you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only Plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." –Bruce Lee.

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___ The Psychopath ____

You know I say that the strongest only reaches the point where he can live and make the difference but there are some people who are not strongest but somehow they live but don't make a difference if something they do is making other people suffer and everybody knows them as the psychopath.There is a big difference in a mental person and a psychopath in my eyes.You see! the mental have has some problem with his brain it  is diseased or they are born with it but the psychopath ruins his own brain.I have seen so many psychopaths in my life and I always observe them that why they are like this.They are born healthy like us,they have same body and brains like us but what happen and why they become weak and then I got is that it's not their fault not even a 1%.

                   They are the side effect of a society,of their surroundings.You see not every person is born with a gold spoon in their mouth,or with love and affection and some are not even lucky to live in a peaceful way.Babies are born and then they become an experiment for so many people,they use them as their stress relief toy and some will give birth to their baby but will forget that they ever did and that child is lost in the thoughts that why my parents are not with me or what is the meaning of my life or why even I am here.Living alone and making your own thoughts and wiping your own tears led you to live in a darkness.your mind  becomes weak and then you hate your surrounding because there is just no one to save you or to understand you.Now these people will become the most insecurities and the most pain.Now what they do?

                Every psychopath has  a different way to relieve them or make them shine.Either they will hurt somebody or they will hurt themselves.I know crazy right but it is true.They are the side effect and now they will affect others life.There is another psychopath how is worse he not only a psychopath but he turns everybody in a psychopath.A part of they live quietly and endure everything but as soon they get the freedom they turn everybody's life into hell.like if he has kids he will affect them in every way he will break them and then rip them in every way and later those kids become one of a psychopath and then the cycle goes on.

                 It makes me so angry that it is us.How? In so many ways it could be us,we are a human being and we do so many wrong stuff and in our life maybe some of our act make a difference in somebody else life.And I say all the time love everybody who is near you even you know them or not be their light you don't even that whom you will bring into the light.Talk to the people around you.Give good vibes.Be polite and loving.And you are one who is suffering DEAR! everybody goes through tough life,it is just that maybe their hardship is not like yours.This life is temporary so we have to make the best out of it.I know this is so tough because you are fighting with yourself 24 hours but trust me, in the end, you will be really proud of  yourself and ask for help.From the people who you think give the good vibes.It could be anyone a person in the barber shop  or a person next door or a person in your class or a job.In the end, it is your life and you will decide that are you the strongest or the bad situation around you.And best of all ask Allah for help,He never leaves a person in more burden than he can hold.

    Be nice to each other and always be positive.

                                                        Love you guys.Be Safe.
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