There are types of people who only hate.then there are people who hate certain people and then there are people who only love and then there is who only say they love .The word love is so messed up that I think everybody is confused that what exactly love is.Last time when I started writing about what love is I couldn't write because I am also confused that what this word means Affection? Trust? Occupied with their thoughts really if its that then aliens are always on my mind.Really it's confusing but I know it is opposite of hate,jealousy,grudge and other stuff.To me, I feel love is something where negativity doesn't exist.And I wanna live like that and If someone says what love is I am gonna say it is something free from every impure or negative stuff.
Philosophers say that love is powerful than anything in this world and I really agree with that because powerful things are hard to achieve And love is really hard and hating is really easy.When love and hate come face to face who is gonna win do you know that ?.In this world in which we live right now,in my point of view love is so rare that it exist like it doesn't exist.everything and every feeling has become so impure and it has become a word so easy to say.We hear it so much that now we don't even feel it.It is just Like other those word that just automatically comes out of our mouths. We are human beings and we expect so much only from others not knowing how much we are giving and if we are the one giving we expect something much more or something little bit more valuable than what we give which only leaves us to be disappointed or broken.
You know there is only one thing in this world which scares me the most which are hatred.I am not even scared of death but hatred is something else.It is so easy to hate that it can change and destroy so much.It can even alter the loving heart.I Am the person who doesn't even wanna go towards the negativity.I don't wanna have a glimpse of it,I believe in giving my love (which opposite of hatred and negativity) and I am a human being and I expect bigger love in return Its not necessary that I always will.Now, people talk about love and giving awareness about love but there are types of people who are spreading the love with such a harsh and rude words and I encounter somebody like that yesterday.
it made me so sad and for a while so angry because I felt that it was not the right way to remove hatred but it is only gonna cause more hatred and anger but what really broke me was when my dearest Friend whom I cherish a lot was with her and back fired at me and she did not even felt that how these words could hurt somebody.Everybody have self-respect and I have too so I could say some harsh words too but it would make me no different from others so escaped that place but what were the after effects?I cried so much just because I got so angry,I felt so ditched and I am crying now that I don't want these feelings.
I read somewhere that our heart is like a bag of tomatoes if you leave hatred inside of it,it will spoil and if you will leave it for a lot of time it will start giving smell so to keep your heart fresh you gotta take care of it,pluck all the hatred so it will be fresh and filled with the best aroma.After that situation ,My heart was filling with hatred and anger and when I realized it I was crying that how can I overcome this hatred I prayed to Allah that I don't wanna be the person who have the slightest anger towards someone I love and after the moment I was relaxed but All the moments we spent felt like it was merely a dream like nothing was true .I Know maybe I am being little too much sarcastic but It feel like a can crushed down by a car.She doesn't have the slightest clue what I am going through and I don't even know she is reading this but I know I am still gonna love her because its me I will fight this hatred But I did realized that hatred is something so easy that it can melt the strongest bonds and that is why it is weakest And Love Is powerful that is hard to fill your heart with it and only the strongest person can handle it.I can hate thousand people but it will make me coward and it is coward thing to me! but love is powerful and It makes a person strong So I will pray to Allah that I become strong so that I won't let hatred come close to me ever again.
I do wanna say, guys, that every individual can do much better.Saying harsh word is so easy But it can destroy so much,never in your life say any harsh word to anyone even if it's your Friend .Rude words have become a trend now but Why can't we make loving words trendy.If each of us tries to remove hatred from our heart won't it make the world less miserable?When a baby is born he only knows how to love but as he grows he learns how to hate why?because we don't teach him to love or the side effects of hate.and especially never ever promote love with harsh and hatred comments it doesn't make a person less hypocrite .I don't want to be someone who has even 1% of hatred and I chose it to be and you can too.
I really don't know how to end this blog but guys If I say I love you I mean it so lets try to love and fill our heart with it and never expect and never hate because this world is already full of hatred now it needs a bit of love .. and each person can make a difference you can make a difference.... so will You?
"Love can win hatred but hatred can never win love"
Love You Guys.Be safe.
***bubyee***
