Saturday, February 11, 2017

____ A Question to You _____



I don’t understand why we always need some incident before we realize something. We know that we would have to study, even then we wait for the deadline. Why is it so that we want to be alone and then we start missing someone when we feel happy or sad?
Happiness is nothing if it is not shared with someone. You can only feel your happiness, you can’t see your facial expression or your smile when you are happy at the moment and that’s the point when you want someone happy because of you (if they really care about your happiness) and you see your own reflection of smile on their face which really makes you enjoy your happiness.
What about sadness? Do you really want to see someone cry because of you? I bet – no. Then why we miss someone when we are sad? I believe that everyone is that capacity that he can bear his own tensions but sometimes, having someone around you make you feel that you are not alone, at least someone is with you.
This has always happened to everyone at some point in life that at first place they have forgotten about everyone because they were so busy in their ambitions, were busy in their career or were busy with someone else when they have actually missed someone else.
A simple question to you – Are you going to be one of those who at some point in life going to miss someone because you were too busy with yourself? Ambitious, Career or any material thing can be achieved or they can be replaced with new ones but if you have missed some relation – it’s not replaceable, ever! You may have overlooked someone who really cares about you because you don’t have time to notice them but they won’t remain there unless you ask them to be. Don’t be a loser.
I just want to make a simple request to you, give some time to yourself, sit somewhere alone and close your eyes for a moment and think who are those who really care for yourself, who really give you important to you and then think are you going to lose them because you are not giving them the importance they deserve?

                                                                                                         Written By: Sadia Malik
                                                          love you guys. Be safe.
                                                      *** bubye ****

Thursday, January 5, 2017

_____ Brown Young Robots _____

Are you connected to Asian culture or Do you know any person who has Asian heritage?.I am not gonna target every Asian but brown people. People of Pakistan and India especially. I am a Pakistani but many Indian can relate to this article or maybe you can relate to. I am writing not knowing a lot about the world and different cultures but let me tell you about brown people.

       I am brown and my entire life is a race A CONFUSED RACE yeah that is much better. When brown people get married they dream about kids and before the kids they decide his/her entire future not thinking what he would like.and when the kid is born his mind brainwashed that he has to be some big thing like doctor engineer otherwise he would not have a life. So then we run In this confused race just like Hunger Games not knowing what is going but you have to fight or else you are dead. we even live and wear like there is some kinda untold sacred rule that must be followed. You talk and even behave like what they told us to do. and if you speak your mind Oh man! You have no respect. You are not allowed to breath.they can beat you yell at you but you are not allowed to speak and if you do, You have no respect.

     For girls, She can't talk about-house matters because it's not her house. After marriage her husband house is gonna be her house.and when she gets married it is the same for her, or everybody excepts her. Many girls are not allowed to travel or not allowed to do things which want just because if her future husband will allow then she will. Even in this era, brown kids go through this all.
And if you wanna walk away from all this just remember you are a robot and will not get the oil which you want and if still, you wanna walk away to act like a human being they are not considered a part of the world.

Many houses have changed but still, many houses are like this even know. If you are a brown kid I am with you. Personally, there are things which I do love about our heritage and culture but the fact that I always treated as a robot is sick.we robots are not even allowed to speak our mind and even cry. Crying is stuff wich only bad robot will do.
I don't know what I can write to change this all but kids are not robots they are a human being. Don't put stuff on them which you want them to do especially listen to their heart they want to be understood not just want oil or a battery refill. Don't think you can buy them everything with money and throw that on them. They want you to be with them.if they want a walk on another path guide and then just trust them and just be on their side if they fail to stand beside them to encourage them.
And if you cannot do that all you aren't a very good parent.You don't need a kid you need a robot .trust be by buying a robot it would be much easier for the life which is not born yet.

   " A ROBOT CAN BREAK AND CAN BE REPLACED BUT A HUMAN BEING CAN'T BREAK BUT DIES AND CANNOT BE REPLACED. "


                                                             be safe. love you
                                                              ***bu bye***